“A Reality Of Rehabilitation: I’m So Very, Very Tired”

I’m tired. Not tired in the sense of exhausted, tired as in I’m losing my resolve. My thesaurus suggests synonyms for resolve are “determination, steadfastness, tenacity, doggedness, firmness”. Well, I reckon I’ve had those attributes all my life, for better or for worse. And, for better, that’s what’s got me mobile, as well as keeping … More “A Reality Of Rehabilitation: I’m So Very, Very Tired”

“Weird Things I have Around Home To Help Me Mobilise. Weird Thing #2: Hand Controls”

Ok, hand controls are not, strictly speaking, around home. But they are probably the single most important item that enables me to be mobile and independent. I don’t know how I would live without my hand controls. Seriously, I don’t know how I would live without them. Hand controls are fitted to my car and … More “Weird Things I have Around Home To Help Me Mobilise. Weird Thing #2: Hand Controls”

“Labelled – I Am A “Middle Class Conformist Redneck””

Strange how when you take a look at an issue it suddenly seems to pop up elsewhere.  Just a few days after I wrote “Labels are for jars not people” I read that architect Russel Walden has described me and my neighbours as “middle- class conformist rednecks” (Oh, Futuna Your Weekend March 12 2011) because … More “Labelled – I Am A “Middle Class Conformist Redneck””

“Labels Are For Jars, Not People”

The use of labels to describe someone has irked me for some time. I would variously describe myself as womanly, paraplaegic, mother, christian, feminist, humanist, able … the list has changed over the years and I expect will change again.  Some labels seem to be mutually exclusive. Priorities change. Meanings change over time. Perceptions change. … More “Labels Are For Jars, Not People”

“A Tribute”

Joan Crowther 12 April 1919 – 10 March 2010 I don’t know if there is a heaven but I do believe that the spirit or soul lives on in the memories of people whose lives were touched in some way. My mother passed away a year ago and hardly a day goes by when I … More “A Tribute”

“The Agony And The Ecstasy – Living In A Tent With A SCI”

In some ways camping when you have limited physical mobility is similar to childbirth.  Hauling yourself around on your knees or your elbows in a confined space, dressing yourself while lying down either on a bouncy air bed or the hard ground, putting your shoes on every time you need to go outside yet unable … More “The Agony And The Ecstasy – Living In A Tent With A SCI”