Life is short. We’re only here once. You never know what’s around the corner. Life is for living. Make the most of every day. The universe conspires in your favour, look for the signs. When ine door closes, another opens.
So many cliches. Yet right now, the universe is conspiring in my favour and I am taking what seems an obvious, if outrageous, action.
I have spent a good part of this year worrying about surgery. Waiting months to know the outcome of earlier surgery – was it successful? Then as that resolved itself satisfactorily, I faced the uncertain prospect of surgery on my wrists. Very minor surgery for which my spinal cord injury turns into a major exercise in managing aftercare. Plus, I have to be fully recovered for my son’s wedding, plus I want to be of some use when my first grandchild is born inNovember.
The uncertainty of the timing of this
surgery, was driving me nuts so I took control. I took control. I asked the surgeon if there might be a four week window that would allow me and my husband to go to Europe! He agreed this was reasonable. I had control over my life again.
I am no longer focussing on surgery and trying to second guess how it will impact on the things I want to do. Instead I am working on an itinerary that will take us to Prague, then Tuscany, and Istanbul. My husband and I asked ourselves, which are the places we would regret not seeing. There’s a long list, but these came up top.
I’ve already missed the wedding of a young friend because I’ve been waiting for issues around surgery to resolve themselves. But things don’t resolve themselves. We resolve them.
It’s been a hectic week or two.
Carpe diem. We leave in less than ten days!